Politics is one of the foundations of the United States Government and the country. There are multiple points of view, talking points, and groups of people. Sometimes, it can be difficult to navigate relationships with others who oppose your political views, but it is possible. Politics in relationships is currently a hot topic, considering the latest presidential election.
Families, marriages, and partnerships have been breaking nationwide. It can be discouraging to witness when you have relationships with others who oppose your political views. You might question if you are making the right decision by looking past it. However, there are ways to handle political differences in relationships and make it work.
Sense of Curiosity
It is common for people to be naturally curious about other political views. Politics naturally coincide with an individual’s beliefs and morals. When you first meet someone, you are curious about their personality, wants, needs, and morals. It is not enough to ask one or two simple questions. You should know the ins and outs of the person and be curious about why they choose one thing over another.
Having conversations about beliefs and morals early on in any relationship can be beneficial in the future. When you first approach the subject, listen to how and why they believe certain morals. Stay respectful through their explanations, and don’t solely focus on their answers. That person will feel pressured and grow uncomfortable to speak.
Have Those Conversations
Political discussions can be difficult, but it is important to keep an open mind. People tend to become defensive or zone out during these conversations. Instead, you should actively listen so both parties can stay engaged. It also helps with understanding. If you need help aligning on anything or understanding how your partner came to their conclusion, ask more questions. Make sure to find common ground as well, so it does not seem like you are always having the same conversation.
Do not think you change someone’s beliefs just because you disagree. You should not want to do that either. When you form a new relationship, you should love them for who they are, every piece of them. Two people with different political views can be in a healthy and happy relationship. The strongest relationships are sometimes the most difficult ones. All it takes is a little bit of work and patience.
Realize When Politics Are Not a Match
Unfortunately, there are times when politics end relationships. There are only so many conversations you can have before you decide whether or not to call it quits. Be honest with your partner about how you feel because they may feel the same. Sometimes, political differences can be too much for people, and that is okay. Have faith that someone else is out there that would suit you better. If you are perfectly content with the difference in opinions or do not talk politics, to begin with, then you are already in the clear. However, consider having those conversations no matter how difficult they might be.
Final Thoughts
Politics are not everything, and they should not make or break a relationship. It is okay to have different views so long as you have mutual respect for the other’s values. There is more to a person than meets the eye, just like there is more to someone than their politics. Remember everything else you like about them and all the other things you have in common. However, being different from your partner can be very positive and beneficial. Think of the popular saying, ‘opposites attract.’ Your differences allow for you both to learn and grow together. You can teach one another new things and strengthen the other’s weaknesses.
