Want to learn more about a Gemini in your life? Are you trying to learn more about yourself? You’re in the right place! This author has been in a long-term relationship with a Gemini, so she has personal experiences in the trenches.
Be warned; you may get to know one side of your personality, but since there’s two (hence the twins), make sure you get to know both. Geminis have to put extra work in that most zodiac signs don’t have to, since there’s two separate sides. People who date this unique sign also should familiarize themselves with their partner—you’re dating twins and you didn’t even know!
Gemini and The Twins
Where did the twin thing come from? In the Gemini constellation, there are two stars that are particularly bright: Castor and Pollux. In some ancient mythologies, they are always referred to as twins and, often times, gods.
Because of their prominence in the sky and in mythologies, Castor and Pollux represent the entire zodiac sign. For more information on these ancient mythologies and astronomy, read about them here.
Good Traits
- Geminis are the kings and queens of conversation. You can talk to anyone about anything. And crack a joke. You’re always the first to make the whole room laugh with your humor.
- In that same vein, you’re outgoing and social. Everyone is your friend. Don’t let that get to your head.
- Your adventurous spirit will have you always looking to explore new things. You are also a lifelong learner because you recognize the importance of learning new things.
- One of the reasons you love to learn is because you’re smart. You love learning new things and then applying them to your life.
- You are the picture of adaptability. Because you love talking to new people, learning new things, and going to new places, you’re a person on the move. Adaptability is a requirement for someone with your outlook on life, and thankfully you have it.
Gemini’s Not So Good Traits
- Your constant pursuit of exciting new things can make it hard to settle in one place. If you’re dating a Gemini, be prepared for them to go on random long walks all the time so they can “discover” something. It’s better than the pacing.
- Some people could perceive you as flaky or a bad friend because your mind is always in the next place, and you may forget something pretty important. Plus, you have so many friends that there’s a lot to keep track of. The right friend group will understand, but there’s room for work for you as well.
- Sometimes you’re sort of floating in the wind, waiting for the next adventure. You don’t always know what you want because you’re the opposite of grounded.
- Making long-term commitments and big life decisions can be nerve-wracking for you. Your spontaneity can easily turn into avoidance and anxiety associated with the concept of permanence. Ultimatums in a relationship are probably not ideal for any sign, but especially not for Gemini.
If you’re dating a Gemini, life will never be boring. There’s always an adventure to be had, like every day. It’s okay to set boundaries on how many adventures you want to take—single and group trips and activities are great too! It’s best to go with the flow and provide a sense of grounding and security for your Gemini, who is always on the move. Don’t try to stifle their spirit often; that’s one of the harshest things you could do.
Their ability to schmooze a room is amazingly helpful in the professional world, politics, and tense family get-togethers. Capitalize on that during the holidays. It’ll make all the spontaneous weekend trips throughout the summer to explore random locations totally worth it.
Every Gemini is “two-faced” to some extent. A person who is not great will use their traits negatively. The “Twin” sign can be manipulative, move on from person to person, and use their ability to win anyone over for the opposite of good. Give a Gemini a chance; you just might find someone great. You’ll never have a dull moment, no matter which side you get.
If you don’t like what you see and you’re single and mingling, here are some less risky zodiac signs you might mesh with better.
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