Benedict Cumberbatch Calls ‘The Roses’ a Date Movie — Even With Its Twisted Themes
Benedict Cumberbatch’s latest film, The Roses, might sound like a recipe for chaos — but he believes it works perfectly for date night. Despite its exploration of marital decay and emotional warfare, the actor sees it as a uniquely peppered romantic black comedy, co-starring Olivia Colman as a married couple spiraling into mutual contempt.
The Roses: “All is Fair When Love Is War”
In a gleefully provocative interview with Entertainment Weekly, Cumberbatch insisted, “All is fair when love is war,” calling The Roses “the perfect film for date night.” His cheeky remark reframes the film’s chaos as a cathartic couples’ outing—because what’s more bonding than witnessing domestic disintegration on screen? (Though not everyone agrees—co-star Allison Janney reportedly disagreed with his assessment.)
Bittersweet Battle of Wits and Hoodies

The film subverts traditional marital comedy tropes by inverting gender roles. Theo (Cumberbatch), an architect whose career is unraveling, watches with envy as Ivy (Colman), an up-and-coming chef, ascends to success. Their resentment escalates in a domino of petty slights and grand gestures of chaos. One unforgettable moment comes courtesy of a climactic brawl—three days of filming, foam oranges, a rogue couch, and a bruising mix of physical comedy and emotional splintering. As Cumberbatch admitted, he occasionally misjudged the couch’s padding—ouch.
Electric Chemistry Beneath the Carnage
Despite the carnage, the chemistry between Cumberbatch and Colman is magnetic. Their rapport makes even the most uncomfortable scenes enthralling. Colman captures Ivy’s icy resolve with biting wit, while Cumberbatch’s embodiment of Theo’s insecurity and aggression grounds the absurd back into something dreadfully relatable.
Jay Roach’s direction, paired with Tony McNamara’s sharp script, channels both cynicism and heartbreak. Critics note that beneath the comedic façade lies a piercing exploration of modern marriage—how ambition, identity loss, and expectation can erode love as much as any grand betrayal.
The Roses as a Date Night Paradox
Yes, Cumberbatch calls it a “date movie,” but it’s no romantic romp. It’s a clarion statement that sometimes the most compelling movies about love are the ones that show how thin its veneer can be. Watching Theo and Ivy go all-in on their own destruction—with each emotional barb and physical flop—is, oddly, a shared experience you might want to book tickets for.
Cumberbatch’s declaration captures the film in its darkest, most delicious essence: love isn’t always sunshine—and maybe, in films like this, that’s what makes it unforgettable.
